2 April 2018 Monday 11:03pm
…but a woman knows how to make decisions. And if she gets pregnant, then she gets pregnant. To me, having a baby is a blessing. There are women out there who would sell an arm and a leg just to be able to conceive. And yet when a child is conceived out of wedlock it is considered a curse. A child is a blessing whether its parents are married or not. Am I mistaken about that?
No, you are not. Once again rules of society are at play when it comes to how women should treat their bodies. At the moment, women are fighting for the right to have a say in what decisions they choose for their own bodies, especially when it concerns pregnancy. Your beliefs are the powers that be that have a say on how women should treat their bodies. Abortion is one of your biggest issues at the moment. The irony of it is that when a child is conceived out of wedlock – the situation and condition that the pregnant woman is in, is considered unacceptable in society’s eyes. Anything that which is borne out of wedlock, is also considered a sin. But it is also against your beliefs to get rid of that which is borne out of wedlock – which is abortion. So what is a woman to do?
She can abstain from sex, that’s what she can do.
That’s another one of your beliefs – sex out of wedlock is also a sin.
Well then, there’s the logic, isn’t it? Being pregnant outside marriage is a sin. So having sex out of marriage is also a sin. As for abortion being a sin, it’s like murder to some – murder is a sin.
And yet you have a thing called death penalty.
But that’s because of a heinous crime. A baby hasn’t committed any crime!
Isn’t a criminal in death row once a baby?
Argh! I don’t know where you’re coming from sometimes!
I’m coming from the truth, my child. So do you still think there’s logic in those beliefs?
Wait. What is “logic” anyway? Hang on. Okay. Logic means “a particular method of reasoning or argumentation.” Sample sentence is “We were unable to follow his logic.”
So do you still think there’s sound reasoning with those beliefs? That it’s a sin to have sex outside of marriage? And that it’s also a sin to get pregnant outside of marriage? And then if the woman gets pregnant out of marriage, it’s also a sin to abort the foetus? So what is a woman to do if she’s already with child?
Wait a sec. First you called it a “foetus” and then next, you called it a “child.” So which is it?
Is there a difference?
The dictionary defines “foetus” as “the young of an animal in the womb or egg, especially in the later stages of development when the body structures are in the recognizable form of its kind, in humans after the end of the second month of gestation.” As for the word “child” the dictionary says it’s “a person between birth and full growth; a boy or girl.” But the dictionary says that the word “child” also means “a human foetus.”
So is there a difference between the word “child” and the word “foetus”?
Um…Yes and no. No, there’s no difference because a child in a womb is a foetus. And yes, there’s a difference to the meaning we give each word.
To me, “foetus” sounds like it’s not a person yet. As in, it’s not fully human yet. When it comes to the word “child” I feel like it already has its own mind. Or maybe even a soul.
Everything has a soul, my child – even plants. Anyway, I get where you’re coming from. Now imagine this – there’s a group that says they are for abortion. Let’s call them the Anti-Foetus Group. Now imagine another group that says they are against abortion. Let’s call them the Pro-Child Group. And these two groups are always at each other’s faces, shouting at each other, protesting that their group is right. Who do you think will win? The Anti-Foetus Group or the Pro-Child Group?
I have no idea. The word “foetus” & “child” mean exactly the same thing.
Precisely. Both groups are not fighting for the foetus or the child. They are fighting for the meaning they are giving to the words. It’s all about the meaning. And what is a meaning? A meaning is a thought. You are all fighting over a thought.
But a child in a womb is not a thought. It’s a living, breathing entity.
It’s not breathing yet.
Well, it has a heartbeat, that’s for sure.
So you’re Pro-Child?
Since you put it that way, maybe I am. My purpose is for all children after all.
As in living, breathing children?
Yes—wait. Haha. Nice trick. So are you saying that a foetus that isn’t breathing yet is not a child?
Didn’t we already discuss the meaning of the words “foetus” and “child”?
Fine. So are you saying they’re the same but they’re not the same?
Let me just say this – words can help you or words can destroy you. And it’s all because of the meaning or meanings you give each word. And most of the time you are all fighting over the meaning. And as I have said, a meaning is a thought. Most of the time you are fighting over a thought. Does that make sense to you?
I don’t know. Sometimes, nothing makes sense in this world anymore.
You can make something make sense with any sense anytime you wish, my child. By giving it meaning.
Oh no. I’m not going back there again. Meaning is a thought, thought is meaning, fighting over a thought which is the meaning. It’s a losing battle!
That’s the problem. Why does it have to be a battle? Why can’t it be a discussion?
Don’t ask me! I’m just writing stuff here.
I know, dear. I know.